So, my close friend met this guy and he added her on FB, a couple hours after they met. oh, they met at a party. They communicated briefly thru msging. Then, my friend sends me a txt but he doesn't reply. well, the text was not a question, I guess. Is it ok for her to hit him up again?
How soon should she do this? Should she call him this time, or leave an online msg?
Now, I couldn't help her cos I expect the guy to do the initial calling for two weeks maybe. So, I was like she shudn't him but she likes him even though they don't reside in the same part of country. I had two different responses. if it's America, she may hit him up asap but for Naija, just chill.
Ok, what do you think she should do? How do girls make moves?
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
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No. she needs to chill. it makes her look too "available". Let him do the texting.
I've never understood the whole playing games thing. if a girl meets a boy and she likes a boy she calls him or texts him. If she sends one text and he doesn't reply she sends another text and calls. its one text. Now if he refuses to call or text her for a week or weeks at a time she accepts that he is not interested and she moves on. :)
More importantly, how can you just disappear and reappear like that?
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Hope you r good.
As for your friend, are there no men in yankee?
Why is she chasing one far away?
lol
It doesn't matter, yankee or naija, 's far as the guy is ok (hope y'all get me on that). Me thinks if she likes him, she shuld just txt - but not something intimate, just a simple "how's the weather over @ yo place?" kinda txt. If the guy is on the same plane as she, he's DEFINITELY gonna reply - no SENSIBLE guy misses a green-light like that. If he doesn't reply, forget him.
And like i said, it dont matter yankee or naija, far as the guy's brushed-up n cool on the low-low, y'know, like "swagged-back".
@Ada-bekee: C'mon babe, which one be "too available"? Uwa e changiela-o, if you like a guy, tell him!! Ok, maybe not outright "telling" him (although that'd be MUCH simpler), but for Yahweh's sake, do things he can't miss. The worst he can do is not like you back. Like i always say: if he minds, he doesn't matter; if he matters, he won't mind.
let her send the text
or calls sef
no harm
just a simple friendly txt
if he replies fine
if he doesnt then he was into her in d first place
very interesting comment guys.
@nice anon! i feel u abeg, i don want her to be too available jare.
@fabulo-la: i know mehn but good men dy kind of scarce for yankee lol
what if they keep msging and stop. can she like call him a couple of days later?
i think she should follow her mind but she should not over do it. She could try and call him but if he doesn't reply, there are other guys
I'm with Imoteda on this.
Who set the 'who calls who first' rules? Whether in Naija or America, there's nothing wrong with liking a guy. In fact, there's nothing wrong with letting a guy know, or giving him hints that you like him. All that, 'I'm playing hard to get to test him and see how serious he is' jargon can backfire o. Men also believe in the there are many fish in the ocean saying.
I'm not saying she should text him everyday. I mean, they just met. If she sends him a text, say on Saturday, and she hasn't gotten a reply by the following Thursday, there's nothing wrong with sending another platonic text. She doesn't have to indicate that she's still waiting for a reply to her previous text (she doesn't even have to make a reference to it); it could just be a 'Hi, how are you doing? Hope your week's been great' typa thing. Most serious guys will even apologize for not replying to the previous text.
There's nothing wrong with texting again.
Yep, nothing wrong with shooting a text. I think some girls get freaked out about it becuase other girls ruined it for them by being OVERTEXTERS and acting clingy right away so guys sometimes play it cool to test the waters and see if girls are like that. Totally agree that guys believe that there are plenty of fish in the sea for SURE! So don't waste all your time on one guy if he's not taking you that seriously, just have fun and keep it light and if it turns into something it does but don't lose any sleep over it! (and don't seem like you've been waiting for him to text you all day, lol!!)
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