Eighteen and still a virgin.

In my blog bio, I describe myself as a semi-virgin because I have made all the popular 'adult intimate moves', besides anal and the infamous intercourse. The past two weekends, I have been involved with a guy intimately up to the point of his putting his dick in my punany but I just wouldn't let him because I was/am not ready.
    I am eighteen and I  had my first boyfriend before i was sixteen. So, I have found myself in several situations, where I tell the guy that I'm a virgin and cannot go any further. most of these guys were 20+ old and previously sexually active. Yes, I may have led them on and dropped the 'i'm a virgin that is not ready' bomb at the last point. Thank God, none of them have tried to forcefully fuck aka rape me because some erections can be pretty scary lol. This semester, I have talked a lot about sex with my gfs, sent nasty texts, watched porn regularly and imagined myself fucking. (sidenote, I know when I start fucking , I'll probably be a freak lol, let's wait and see). Yet, I cannot bring myself to do the main thing. The guy from the recent weekends asked if I was scared and I didn't answer because I wasn't but had no other reason to share with him.
    The truth is that I want to save myself until I'm ready for the banging business, not for that special somebody and not even marriage, just for my ready moment. From what I've seen, banging is pleasurable but I don't think I can keep up with the birth control pills, protection and dynamics of fucking. At the same time, I can't eat my cake and have it. My relationships grow but the sex is missing. I don't know if this recent guy is going to wait for me till I'm ready that's why I refused to make us official because I can't promise him my pussy in the near future.
    So, it comes down to this, most relationships are based on love, respect and sex. I can deal with the first two but the third still seems to be the missing link. I know yall are gonna be like if he loves me he'll wait but we are talking about sexually active grown-ass males here and I'm not ready. I may be blabbing at ths point, it is not because I don't want to lose him but I think the next relationship that I'll find myself in will have this same issue.
    As for now, I'm still keeping my pussy under lock and key  because I want to be ready to face the consequences, when i start playing the adult game.  My ready moment may be tomorrow, my 21st birthday or wedding night, who knows?

Relations with the opp. sex advice

So, my close friend met this guy and he added her on FB, a couple hours after they met. oh, they met at a party.  They communicated briefly thru msging. Then, my friend sends me a txt but he doesn't reply. well, the text was not a question, I guess. Is it ok for her to hit him up again?

How soon should she do this? Should she call him this time, or leave an online msg?

Now, I couldn't help her cos I expect the guy to do the initial calling for two weeks maybe. So, I was like she shudn't him but she likes him even though they don't reside in the same part of country.  I had two different responses. if it's America, she may hit him up asap but for Naija, just chill.

Ok, what do you think she should do? How do girls make moves?

The crush, suggestions needed.

So there's this guy, call him Lime, in my school. He's Nigerian-American and I'm Nigerian We don't talk but definitely know that we both exist i.e. we're aware of each other's presence on campus.

Freshman year, I disliked him so much that a friend and I used to call him 'Agbero'.

Soph year, I have a crush on Lime. too much, I rarely have crushes. Actually, this is like my third major crush ever and I'm really shy. He's single and I'm too. lol.

We don't really have mutual friends but we take this really big class of about 200 students together. How do I get us talking? My friends told me to just go sit beside him and start talking but he really doesn't come to class often and I don't really go either.

Don't tell me to get over it cos I really like him and I don't want to be crushed.

Suggestions for strategizing on this guy is needed?

Places that we cross paths: Class, Cafeteria, Parties.

Confession: I love me some good porn

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Speed Dating?

So, Ive been invited to speed date in a few days. here is a description from the Wikipedia

Speed dating is a formalized matchmaking process or dating system whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people. Men and women are rotated to meet each other over a series of short "dates", usually lasting from 3 to 8 minutes depending on the organization running the event.

We know pple meet thru crazy means these days, some couples even meet each other on FB. and women may even make the first move now?

By the way, I have to pay about $20 to participate.

If I go to this speeddating event, am I overdoing it?

PS: I am single, sexy, smart, ready to mingle and not expecting a miracle out of this event.

What do you think and don't tell me to do what I want to do? If you were my friend, what will be your take on this?

I'm berck! oh, I made out with a stranger

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just thinking.

to close or not to close?

that's the question.

some time in april, the purpose of this blog turned to telling the story of my love ish and all the things I cannot tell in black and white. as of now, that mushy mushy side of my life is not active and I have no apologies cos I have a reasonable standard and more priorities than to have some frolicking adventures. lol.

thus, I am thinking of closing my blog and maybe reopening, when a lucky motherfriggin dude lights up a spark or gets me to unleash my very sultry sexual being, if my blogging mojo is still intact. (?)

it was a fun e-journey with y'all

happy lovin'

I no run oh

So, it is only original mgbeke that noticed my hiatus. I came back cos of her. Infact, I don dey crush for her blog for sometime. ps, original mgbeke na woman oh. so u know the kind of blog crush that I have. her blog makes sense.

Anyways i have been keeping tabs on ur blogs but i may not have commented. why? u may ask.
puh-lease and pee-lizzz, why do u folks have word verifications on ur blogs. what does it do?
the only reason I can think of is that u wanna verify if the commenters are humans and not some aliens/animals. scratch that! we all are animals in some way or the other, infact straight up animals.
so, if i dont comment on ur blog, it may be becos of the inconvenience from trying to decipher the jumbled stuff called word verification, especially when I have to do it twice.

mehn, if u have not seen Chris breezy's public apology vid to rihanna. google it asap! haba, that ex-couple just getting my attn.

Plus, I check out girls nowadays. nothing more than that sha. You know when u see babe wey set and admire her outfit but me, I may check out her rack or tight butt. I hope I am not going lesbo oh. I hope not but come to think of it, I will have twice as more options if I am bi.

una men! wan fall my hand. as in some XY-chromosomed species have not been performing at all. ok pple, imma blog about my possibly lesbo roots(if any) soon. I saw on yinkuslolo blog, men wud soon be redundant, if stem cells can produce sperm. but can a tree fuck women?

In short, I will back to blog properly.

Happy loving, blogsville.

Chrihanna follow-up!

to be honest, i started paying attn to this couple( abi ex-couple) after they split up. did I hear a "free them jo!" ? hahahaha. Chris is shopping, RihRih is showing off her youngins(get?). Looks like RihRih has a new boo lol.

Got the info from theybf.com

buh fashi mehn, Chris is a smooth toy. looking all cute after effing up

Homeboy getting it with his supposed bff, teyana taylor at Diddy's all white parry

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star-studded youngins, go RihRih

Ghosts of my Exes past!

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